People come & people go...
Nov 10, 2023On our ascension journey, it's not uncommon to experience a shift in resonance with certain people. This is a natural part of our ascension and evolution, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. However, it can feel challenging, especially when it involves family, friends, or close sistars leaving our field.
I'd love to offer a different perspective on this matter
Instead of feeling sadness when people exit your life, consider celebrating yourself. Your growth and evolution are integral aspects of life. Embracing these changes and finding peace with them opens the door for new connections to effortlessly enter your life.
However, I also would like to invite you to create spaciousness to grief simultaneously. Because especially when these people have been active in your field for a long time, you will feel sad. You are saying goodbye to parts of you that are no longer in resonance with the person that you are becoming.
And you may grieve, cry, and find comfort in the way your human desires to navigate this process. Whether that is indulging yourself with some delicious chocolate or going to the beach and becoming one with nature.
🌟 Cacao makes your heart glow 🌟
A hot cup of ceremonial cacao is most definitely going to support you in this heart-opening process. You can also practice some heart-opening yoga practices or:
- Close your eyes and place your hands on your heart
- Take a few deep inhales in your heart, breathing in through to the nose and out through the mouth
- Followed by 3 deep inhales in the heart making an "ah" sound with each exhale
Soul Family
The new connections that the universe is trying to send your way, are eager to play and co-create magic with you, providing a much more enriching experience than dealing with those who may be ignoring you now ;-)
Trust me, there are many souls waiting to enter your life, but they can only do so if you're open to receiving them. The universe is constantly trying to gift us all that we desire, the more important question is; is your inner feminine receptive to receive? Can you lean back, trust & surrender to the process, knowing that everything unfolds for you thriving in alignment with the ascension paths you've chosen?
It's also crucial to remember that when people choose to leave your grids, it doesn't imply there's anything wrong with you or your frequency. It simply means that either you or the other person is choosing to align with a different version of reality.
I really would like to emphasize this, because these initiations often can lead us into the not-enoughness template.
Canceling someone and Being Canceled
One of the most painful human experiences is to be canceled, ignored, or not recognized. Because finding our way to enoughness and self-worth are significant parts of our ascension pathway, leading us back to our homebody and heart consciousness.
Reflecting on my own experiences, I've been on both sides. I've ignored and canceled people by
- gradually disengaging
- responding with emojis only
- and eventually not responding at all
Here's a valuable lesson I've learned:
when you no longer resonate with someone, and they persist in connecting with you, you face a choice. Past versions of me might have ignored any engagement, and I still do at times depending on the relationship. More often than not, I choose to engage in the conversation, even though it's more uncomfortable for my human than ignoring someone. Ignoring may be easier, but in a way, it's taking the easy way out. While there's nothing inherently wrong with it, it's worth considering if this aligns with the codexes of light we are activating anchoring the new golden age.
Sharing my observations often leads to a split in timelines anyway, because, in truth, we are no longer in frequency resonance.
I want to emphasize that this is a playfield, and I do acknowledge instances when I decide "enough is enough" and even go as far as unfriending or blocking people on social media when their energy becomes irritating or feels unauthentic.
Having been on the receiving end of being canceled, I know firsthand how painful it can be. However, we must remember that people can only show up based on their own understanding and love for themselves, so what others do or don't do has little to do with you.
We are all on this journey together, and it's our love for ourselves, others, and the world that will lead us gracefully into a new golden age filled with flow and grace.
An invitation to deepen your quantum healing journey
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Love, Nishanthi
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